Below is a picture of Frank Voellm. I like to think of myself as an adventure motorcyclist, admittedly I am not as much of an adventurer as others. I am a member of the forum ADVRider.com. They have a sticky post where you can sign up if you are willing to have people stay at your house if they are adventure motorcycling through your area. For some reason I can't get the notifications to work properly and for whatever reason, serendipity had me check the site in March of 2013. There was a message from Frank that he was in year 3 of an around the world motorcycle trip. He is from Germany and his life choices allow him to do a lot of traveling. He spent four days at my house and was a wonderful guest. The only issue was that he has so many stories it was hard to stay up listening to them since I had to go to work the next day.

Frank traveled to the Americas by freighter to Argentina if I remember right. In any case his stay at my house caused me to do some re-evaluating of my life. He was traveling with just what he needed and was happy. I began to see all of my 'stuff' as anchors preventing me from doing what wanted. Probably like many people I was not quite sure what I wanted.

In any case around this time I started looking for a new job. I am one of those people that get itchy around the 5 year point. I really believe in Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 hour hypothesis. 5 years in a job is 10,000 hours and by that point you should be pretty good at it. In 2013 I was getting close to the 5 year point and was ready for a change. I had been at that company since 2005 and had been the longest period of time with the same name on my paychecks.

Back to Frank, his stories perhaps brought out my wanderlust. I had the thought that I would like to move to a job that required traveling. Probably when I got out of the Navy my intention was to settle down and start a family. I probably was looking for love in the wrong places or perhaps I am too flawed. Having a family never came to be. I only spent 4 days with Frank. When he left it was a little bittersweet. I think I remember thinking I want to go with you.





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